You can't.
On motherboards, capacitors will often be connected in parallel with other capacitors. Not necessarily other electrolytic capacitors, often the electrolytic capacitors are also in parallel with ceramic capacitors of various capacitances (usually 10nF, 100nF , ~470nF etc, to reduce EMI, for decoupling etc)
The meter will measure the result of all those capacitors, not just that one you want, so the results will not be accurate. Unless you can SEE the traces the capacitor is soldered to, and what's around the capacitor to be sure nothing will affect measurement, it's safer to desolder a lead (or both) and test the capacitor.