It is worth pointing out that no amount of scrubbing with toothbrushes etc is going to get inside a machined IC socket with its tiny bronze fingers. Ultrasonic cleaning would be a great idea, but pressure washing with a surfactant might also work. Particular chemicals that attack mold are boric acid, and trisodium phosphate.
The problems seem to be in two parts. 1 is how to remove the deposits of mold, which are very tenacious and not very soluble in anything. this must be mechanical. 2 is how to leave the gold contacts clean of any residue so they will be functional electrically. you are probably going to use strong degreasers for that, although you need to protect the plastic parts of the sockets. try to find out what they are made of (Liquid Crystal Polymer, Polyphenylene Sulfide, glass-filled Nylon or PBT, or Polycyclohexylene-dimethylene terephthalate are likely candidates) and make sure your chemicals are compatible.