Sorry, but in my opinion, you are using a crap tool.
I got a butane soldering iron once out of curiosity, and my conclusion is that the only thing it was good for is if you need to do an emergency repair and you don't have electricity.
I still don't have a full soldering station because they are expensive and take up a lot of space.
The usual advice I've read from experienced "pros" is that "you NEED a temperature-controlled soldering iron and stop wasting your time with cheap junk!" I used to read that all the time when I was getting started. I found it annoying and I kept resisting upgrading because of the reasons just mentioned. I was using cheap tools from Radio Shack and similar, thinking they were ok for what I was doing.
And as all those people said, I was just plain wrong. The difference is this: with a cheap iron, maybe you can make the connections, but it's difficult at best to do it right.
With any decent temperature-controlled iron, soldering is easy and you can make beautiful and technically-correct solder connections quickly. It makes soldering into a pleasure. I used to think I had tools that were ok, but I was just bad at soldering. Once I got a good-quality iron, everything changed.
I said I still don't have a full soldering station, so here is how I got a really good soldering iron for a more affordable price: The Weller WP25 is a simpler product that is just a good-quality plug-in soldering iron that is temperature controlled. The difference is that it has only one temperature, unlike soldering stations that allow you to set the temperature. It is only $38.50 at Mouser. I suggest you try that.