If any body was going to die from lead poisoning it would be people who did a lot of shooting particularly those in an indoor range. When I was a range officer at one time at the local R&P club I had my blood tested and the lead content was lower than the average person who was not a shooter, at that time the biggest source of ingested lead was exhaust fumes and as I live in a rural area my exposure to exhaust fume is lower than that of a town dweller. I was not only in the range a lot I was also doing my own reloading and soldering. i think that the only way to suffer from lead poisoning from soldering is to eat the stuff so as the previous post said wash your hands after handling solder especially before eating and don,t eat while soldering. i do expect that much if any lead will get into the body through the skin all the cases of problems from lead I have read about has been cases such as the one in the 1800's where a load of people fell ill due to apples being chopped up in a lead lined trough to make cider or from lead pipes in a soft water area in hard water areas the pipes get lined with limescale which limits the exposure. so fear not a bit of soldering will not harm you, unless you drop molten solder into your crutch, then you will be dancing the hornpipe.