Op, this is longwinded too.
I remember back then when I first got into electronics and scrounged youtube for videos. That was where I saw dave who just got started blogging.
As I study electronics, I always keep in mind of my journey through programming, and how I suddenly understood it one day. I was hoping a similar thing would happen. I saw alot of parallels between the programming and electronic worlds. However, I must admit that learning electronics took much longer. The reasons are in the next few paragraphs.
One is that visualization of the components such as inductor, capacitor, conductor, etc.. The visualization also must make sense with their formulas. If it breaks the formulas, it's back to square one of finding a better visualization for that component or accept magic. When the books tell us to visualize capacitor as a water tower, the question is why? They often don't go into the details other than tell us to do so.
Two is the electronic lingo. Back then I was lost over mere things like coulomb, volt, amp, cathode and anode (this is opposite to the chemistry's ones), current direction, input impedance, output impedance, high, low, RMS, etc... . Books and engineering gurus used them like normal talk. I remember seeing the book use something like "high input impedance" then I check back if they even explain that. This put us hobbyists in a "I think it means this, but I am not 100% absolutely sure" state.
Third is to actively learn. This is where it gets expensive in both time and money. When you see them talk about a circuit, build a simplify version of it and test it. Reading about it is the same as watching the cooking channel all day long and walking away still not knowing how to cook.
Anyways, it's not the best way to study electronics, but below (pic) is how I study electronics as a hobbyist. As I read or watch the gurus' videos, I come up with study materials. Then I enter my materials into my personal study site. (site address is undisclosed, but there are many good free study sites) This has help me greatly. Us hobbyists don't do electronics everyday nor even weekly, so something to refresh the memory is good.