If the connector housings are doing their job, the pin plating shouldn't have any restrictions, certainly not if it's gold anyway.
Nickel is the worst contact plating because the oxide is a good semiconductor. Tin is preferred for low cost, general purpose and power contacts because it is soft enough to wipe mechanically. Gold is preferred for small signals because it doesn't oxidize at all.
Also, do not mix platings. Gold on tin is undesirable due to contact / high pressure formation of intermetallic compounds. Tin on tin is better than tin on gold, but not as good as gold on gold.
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