are you sure you're talking about sot23-8 ? that's giant compared to other stuff
sot23-8 is roughly 3x3mm footprint so it's not that big and soldering it is roughly the same as soldering a SOIC-8 (another giant SMT package). you just need to start working with those small things and it'll be ok
after some time you would not even think about using those ugly giant DIP packages
btw... i'm a hobbyist , i do my boards in my lab and i'm using components down to 0402, and ics in MSOP, VSOP, 0.5mm pitch quads. you just need to get used to those small packages. a year ago 1206 and 0805 size for passives was my preferred choice. and i was bitching at msop and anything smaller than 0805... now 0603 and 0402 is the default size for passives on my boards and i use the larger components only when needed (power dissipation, putting a trace or even two between pads of a passive.. etc..)