I think the 116, j41 impedance will be based on a compromise between Rx and Tx performance.
I can copy the reference design for sure, but I want to understand how this works and how it was calculated.
As I mentioned earlier, I would design it using an EM simulator and I'd obtain the manufacturer's 1 or 2 port s parameter models for the lumped components. I'd also measure/model the antenna as a 1 port model. I would prefer to use 0.5mm or 0.8mm FR4 material (not 1.6mm).
I would expect that the person who designed the app circuit did something similar.
However, I don't think you 'need' to use an EM simulator for this as long as you use tiny (tight tolerance and well modelled) SMD parts and a tight layout on a thin PCB material.
Besides, I think you will only need to get in the ballpark of 116, j41 to get acceptable Tx and Rx performance anyway. Even if you centred the design 'dead on' you would see a fair bit of spread across batches of boards if you factored in the tolerance of the lumped parts.