First off, I can't believe there's so many of us from NJ in this thread, lol - out of how many US members?...
Ok, there's some good advice in this thread (particularly those say that sticking with it pays in the long-run).
If I may express two things:
1) You mention that 'if' you could go back to your high-school self and... Well, it doesn't sound like you're that old at all actually (year or two out of HS?). What I'm trying to say is, there's always going to be something you could have done differently, but that will also never matter. What matters is what you can (and are going) to do today.
2) Don't focus so much on salary when you're starting out (there's plenty of time for that). As long as you're doing something you truly have a passion for, money will certainly come along with knowledge, experience, etc. The financial end often corrupts the innate love we have for what we do or diverts us into something we don't truly have a passion for (the precedent to unhappiness).
Good luck, it sounds like you're at the beginning of your journey and let me say that its a great place to be, have fun and much success.
Yeah. I think there's more of us on here too!
I agree with you. I go to high school in Northern NJ. I'm in classes with lots of smart kids. Kids with big aspirations. But one thing that they all have in their minds is "Money money money". "I want the job that will pay the most". Money is not a bad thing to have, don't get me wrong, but I've learned something from adults and people that actually have experience, and that's to do what you actually enjoy. You've heard it a lot, but it's true. If you enjoy something, you'll be passionate about your work, and you'll do a good job, and subsequently you'll get the money you deserve!
I play varsity tennis. We have 'managers' for our team that keep attendance and help out. They're all girls. I was talking to one of the senior girls about where she was going to college and what she wanted to do. She said she was planning on doing electrical engineering. Of course, I became excited and asked more. Then I asked her, "Did you like physics? Did you like simple circuits?"....and she said "No actually I really hated circuits. They were so boring"
My heart broken, I asked "Are you sure you really want to do that then?" And to break my heart further she said, "Well my dad says it's a really high paying job, so that's why I'm going to do it"...I just left it at that. Moved on to another subject...
But yeah. Why do people do this? If you know you don't like something, that's not to say that you can't grow to like it, but why choose it in the first place? Money? That's it? You'd rather be miserable in the activity that will consume the majority of your life than to be happy in your job? What sense does that make?
I understand that it's hard to know what you're going to do with the rest of your life when you're 17 or 18 years old, but sheesh, if you will go as far as to say that you
hate circuits, why on earth would you want to major in EE?