@Ian.M: "Alternatively, use a DPDT switch and wire the circuit as below, which will automatically connect the milliAmmeter in the correct direction for charging and discharging. The DPDT switch is shown in the discharge position."
I just wired the circuit you provided, using my cheapo Radio Shack analog multimeter for the voltmeter (in its 5V range - I figured 6V wouldn't kill it) and a 1mA panel meter I have in my collection. It worked brilliantly. When I throw the switch to the "charge" position, the ammeter jumps up to something in the 0.7mA range and then begins falling as the cap charges, until it comes to rest after about 20 seconds, at a reading of a little less than 0.1mA. At the same time, the voltmeter climbs steadily until it reads beyond the range of the 5V scale, so I am presuming it is approaching 6V. If I throw the switch into the 0 position, the ammeter drops to 0 and the voltmeter begins to drop very slowly. I attribute this to the drain through the voltmeter. When I switch to the "discharge" position, the ammeter again jumps up, then begins falling fairly rapidly, as does the voltmeter. In this case, the ammeter and voltmeter drop all the way to zero, as I would expect.
I think this has become a nice little experiment, and it sure helps to see how the cap is behaving. Thanks so much for your help!
I'll try it again when I get my zero-center meters (I ordered a few ranges).