I was in a presentation at the APEX show this week with some interesting information about relays vs solid state devices for test fixtures. They currently have solid state relays with low enough contact resistance to beat relays. However, the don't all have good values for all of the following:
Ron, Roff, Capacitance. With a low Roff, you get some leakage. With a high capacitance, you cannot use for high frequency signals without issues.
Best case had good values for two out of the three. For uses that require all three, there still isn't something better than the standard reed relay for test fixtures and similar low current uses.