Hi
Whatever you do you need good thermal contact.
It's a To-263 package as you say similar to Dpak
Options are ...
Thermally conductive aryldite if you want to glue it.
A good option would be a thermal pad or grease and make a small aluminium block / clamp to adapt it to your heatsink mechanics.
You could also cut a copper rectangle, solder the device to it then voila you have a pretend To-220 package. (Preferred option I think)
Just bear in mind every mechanical interface point has thermal resistance.
I hope that helps.
Peter