Just go an get a cheap DIY style hot air gun, the sort of thing used for paint stripping and other similar diy tasks. Ideally,, get one with two heat settings.
Use this to heat up the pcb and connectors to around 100degC, then you'll find you can just solder everything together easily with a normal iron!
(be careful, do not hold the hot air gun too close or in one place for too long, it will toast the pcb! Use it to warm the whole lot by holding it about 12" away and moving round in constant circular patterns. After a couple of min heating (you'll quickl get a feel for how long things take to heat up) put the hot air gun down, break out the soldering iron and solder away!)