I think the real SDI Vs IP question (Which is actually orthogonal to the 4K question) comes down to facility size.
A small facility will be cheaper (at the moment) done SDI, if you are talking say a 64 square router or so, by the time you are looking at maybe 256 square or up, leaf and spine on IP is looking very good, and for a playout as opposed to a production facility, 2022-6 gets you everything you need (In fact for playout it is arguably a better choice then 2110 because you avoid a whole mess of audio timing pain), of course playout is largely compressed domain which is a whole other can of worms.
Lots of interop still to do, and the NMOS guys need to get the finger out or someone is going to hack a control protocol for video routing control on top of something like Ember+ (Probably the VSM guys).
I am betting that most IP facilities, even most 4K capable ones will spend their time @1080p60 except when there is big sporting events on.
I am not seeing much BMD in broadcast facilities (At least not in chain), churches, theatres, schools, wedding video types and conference centres seem to be where that stuff mostly lives in my experience.
Regards, Dan.