I'm thinking that the transistors we used had a higher base-emitter reverse voltage rating than the 2N2222,so we got away with it.
I learnt about astable M/Vs back in the tube days,& musing about that made me realise you were correct.
If it didn't happen the way you said,tube astables wouldn't work.
Tubes need to be biased hard negative to cut off,& of course,the voltage rating grid w.r.t. cathode,(negative or positive) is only limited by internal breakdown of the vacuum or the mounting insulation,so there is no problem.