I was wondering if I could get your advice people, I would really like to know where to start, I really need to begin somewhere but I am starting from the very beginning I know not where to go, like a lost sheep if you will.
Why not build some circuits from scratch?
Just 1 or 2 transistors to start with or using a couple of chips.
Being able to build something straight from a circuit diagram is a core skill
Stuff out of the Forrest Mims books or the Talking Electronics website would be ideal.
A lot of people use solderless breadboard for prototyping and this is good if you want to easily change component values.
Personally though I know from the start that it will be a permanent project so I generally solder stuff even if prototyping. But it's a good idea to use a construction method (eg matrix board or blank PC board) that can be changed later on (rather than an etched PC board).
The RF oscillator circuit below is one of my favourites.
Even if you're not into radio it's a good basic building block for things like generating an RF waveform for an oscilloscope, a rough frequency standard (eg with a 10 MHz crystal) or an inductance meter.
The latter requires adding a tuned circuit to the output of the oscillator plus a detector (a transistor + LED) to indicate maximum RF. When the variable capacitor in the tuned circuit is set to a particular position (that resonates with the crystal oscillator's frequency) RF passes through and the LED lights. As different inductors need a different capacitor value to resonate on frequency the knob of the tuning capacitor can be calibrated with various inductance values.
If you want several ranges you use a different frequency crystal. 3.58 & 10 MHz are common frequencies and are ideal as they give ranges that are 10 times apart. I'll leave it for you to work out why.