the MSDS for lead disagrees.
http://www.sciencelab.com/msds.php?msdsId=9927204
I think nobody argues that lead is not toxic or that it is not bad for environment, but let's get things in perspective, shall we?
The MSDS for lead that you have linked says:
"Potential Acute Health Effects: Slightly hazardous in case of skin contact (irritant), of eye contact (irritant), of ingestion, of
inhalation."
and:
"Potential Chronic Health Effects:
Slightly hazardous in case of skin contact (permeator). CARCINOGENIC EFFECTS: Classified A3 (Proven for animal.) by
ACGIH, 2B (Possible for human.) by IARC. MUTAGENIC EFFECTS: Not available. TERATOGENIC EFFECTS: Not available.
DEVELOPMENTAL TOXICITY: Not available. The substance may be toxic to blood, kidneys, central nervous system (CNS).
Repeated or prolonged exposure to the substance can produce target organs damage."
So unless you actually get the lead in your body somehow - e.g. by drinking or eating it - you are pretty much safe. Bringing up the Flint case is not really useful when talking about soldering - ingesting heavily contaminated water is not the same as handling a leaded solder wire. Or are you putting solder in your lunch?
Every last substance on this list is EXTREMELY TOXIC, if you don't believe me - go put some cadmium, mercury, or hexavalent chromium in your next glass of water and drink it. Let's see how long it takes for you to change your mind.
Strawman argument. Soldering is not the same as drinking or eating lead particles.
Oh, and a side note - some of those are contact poisons, merely getting them on your skin causes absorption.
Another strawman, because this is not the case for lead - it is marked only as possible irritant and slightly hazardous if you have prolonged exposure. Wash your hands after work and you will be fine.
Leaded solder has been in use for decades and I have never seen a documented case of lead poisoning
from soldering. Leaded paint or lead water pipes are another story, though. You have probably had more lead and cadmium exposure from leaded gasoline car exhaust fumes if you are old enough than you could ever get from soldering.
Here is a research study that did actually focus on lead in electronics factory workers in Malaysia - i.e. an environment with significantly higher exposure to both fumes and dust lead than what a normal hobbyist/repairman would ever encounter:
http://www.niosh.org.my/download/jurnal/vol1no2271204.pdfp. 53 (p 13 in the PDF):
"Although the soldering workers are
exposed to lead during their work, this exposure
does not seem to have any effect on their blood
lead concentrations. Therefore, this suggests that
whatever blood lead concentrations that the
respondents have are not from their workplace
but from the general environment such as
ambient air, food, water, dust from the streets or
paints and perhaps emission from nearby
industries. Since the blood concentrations are
very low, no adverse health effects are seen in
the respondents."
Even the RoHS compliant UK government recognizes lead soldering as not liable to result in a significant exposure:
http://www.hse.gov.uk/pubns/priced/l132.pdf (p. 26) Low temp (<500C) soldering and handling of metallic lead are explicitly mentioned there.
Can we put the scaremongering about leaded solder to rest now? RoHS is about environment protection, so that this crap doesn't accumulate in the environment thanks to our culture disposable electronics and e-waste. It doesn't say that soldering using leaded solder is dangerous as such.