One grandfather fought the Germans in France in WWI. He got shell shock, but I remember him as a terrific grandfather, always kind and generous and a real character. A very practical man who was much loved.
Another grandfather fought the Italians in Libya in WWII. After fighting there, they shipped him of a New Guinea to fight the Japanese where he got malaria and dysentery. Before the war he was a whizz with maths apparently, and a good family man. During the war, he was a signalman. But New Guinea wrecked him. There was no support for PTSD back in Australia. I only remember seeing him as a hopeless drunk when I was a kid. He was so drunk, I'd see him crying into his grog regularly, urinating on the kitchen floor. My grandmother suffered a lot with this alcoholic. Shortly before his death in 1972, he fell under a moving train in Hawthorn, presumably drunk.
An uncle of mine was in the AIF and went to Hiroshima to help clean up after the USA dropped the atomic bomb on the good citizens of Hiroshima. Some days later he was posted to another place called Nagasaki. He never talked about what he saw, not even to his own family. We knew about Hiroshima, but only found out about Nagasaki at his funeral. Even his daughter (my cousin) was not told about Nagasaki.
We own ANZACs a debt of gratitude. IMO, it is disrespectful that if ANZAC Day April 25th falls on the weekend, there is no pubic holiday in lieu of the date, but the Australian government declares the day off for everyone to celebrate the old Queen of England's birthday every year on a Monday when it is not even her birthday
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On the other side - literally - my wife's uncle fought against the Allies in Libya and was killed in action - no body found. The Poms bombed a train station in Italy where crowds of civilians were going about their business, where my wife's aunt happened to be at the time. There was no trace of her body to be found after they obliterated the train station. My father-in-law fought the Russians in the Ukraine and Russia, where he almost starved to death. When he returned to Italy, he became a partisan and fought against Mussolini. From those days on, understandably, he only had contempt for all politicians and after he emigrated to Australia insisted the way forward for his family was hard work and education.
Australia allows the former enemies - the Turks and Italians - to join in the ANZAC day marches. The Japanese however are not allowed. The Turks even have an RSL right here in Melbourne.
Politicians cause most wars, and I guess there would be far fewer wars if politicians were somehow forced to send their own kids or siblings to the front line first.