It will be rather difficult to observe; the quanta from black hole mergers peak in the ueV range, and we have a hard enough time measuring macroscopic superpositions of them (i.e., classical waves)!
Or, likewise, at extremely high energies and densities, where quantum gravity becomes inevitable, and presumably, gravitons of comparable eV (we're talking 10^20+ here..) become detectable.
But such is the matter of cutting-edge physics. It's not obvious at this time whether a "graviton" will remain a suitable explanation, but there's absolutely no doubt that, whatever theory evolves, all currently known physics (QCD and electroweak, GR) are contained within it, as a low-energy limit (just as E&M is a low-energy case of electroweak, and Newtonian mechanics is a low-energy case of GR). Perhaps by then, we will have a more satisfactory explanation of our current theory of gravity, perhaps using a graviton, perhaps using something altogether more elegant.
Tim