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Offline Mechatrommer

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #25 on: September 25, 2011, 01:43:33 pm »
Guys who have been with a lotof women know better.
women who have been with a lotof guys know better.
imo sociology and lifestyle differences between countries and people also affecting the perspective. women becoming more open minded as they have more sexual intercourse, but always (or mostly) guys catch up earlier. once they (women) are acquainted, then they can give us some answers. they even only laugh or say "wow" if you strip naked infront of them. who dont like sex then they are stupid or got some syndrome. i agree, guys who have been with a lotof women know better. some reliable answer are welcomed.
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if something can select, how cant it be intelligent? if something is intelligent, how cant it exist?
 

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How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #26 on: September 25, 2011, 01:53:44 pm »
women who have been with a lotof guys know better.

Exactly. They're just as slutty as men.
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #27 on: September 25, 2011, 08:04:07 pm »
The slutty thing is debatable but men generally have a higher sex drive than women.

I suppose my point was that men are more visually stimulated than women, for example most porn is targeted at a male audience, be it heterosexual or homosexual and women make more of an effort to look good than men do. The difference is women don't care what your dick looks like as long as it's clean and does the job where as men can be more easily put off if the woman looks bad naked.
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #28 on: September 25, 2011, 08:10:48 pm »
...women make more of an effort to look good...
Yeah, but mostly to feel better about themselves.
We don't care as much about it as they think we do.
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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #29 on: September 25, 2011, 08:18:21 pm »
Maybe Dave can shed some light on this in his next vblog... he knows everything! lol

You know what they say at the EEVBLOG,
Don't turn her on, take her apart!
Was it really supposed to do that?
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #30 on: September 26, 2011, 01:56:35 am »
men generally have a higher sex drive than women.

Disagreed.

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The difference is women don't care what your dick looks like as long as it's clean and does the job

Lol, oh grasshopper, you have so much to learn.
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #31 on: September 26, 2011, 02:35:45 am »
men generally have a higher sex drive than women.

Disagreed.
What proportion of women commit sexual crimes compared with men?

How many women employ the services of prostitutes compared with men?

Proves to me that you really don't know women that well. Hopefully someday you'll get some candid answers from women.
And you do? How do you know the women who you've discussed this with are telling you the truth?

Fair point you could ask me the same question. We don't know whether women are telling us the truth or not.
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #32 on: September 26, 2011, 03:04:54 am »
What proportion of women commit sexual crimes compared with men?

How many women employ the services of prostitutes compared with men?

Seriously??? This is your logic? How many women have you raped? None? Does that mean you don't have a high sex drive?

And you do?

Yes, I do.
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #33 on: September 26, 2011, 04:22:10 am »
What proportion of women commit sexual crimes compared with men?
Strength aside, it's actually more difficult for a woman physically rape a man... for obvious reasons. Although drugs could technically solve that these days, but still not very practical approach for our would-be female rapist. But the higher statistics for men could be due to other factors, such as aggression, etc.

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How many women employ the services of prostitutes compared with men?
Most sex workers are in it, not because of the men, but because they actually really like doing it.

That said, people perceive a difference of sex drive between genders, probably because of the methods each gender uses for seeking out a partner. Men usually have no qualms about sleeping with randoms and are quite happy to advertise their conquests to the whole world; whereas women tend to be more selective about their partners and perhaps gossip about it amongst themselves... who knows what else goes on in those club bathrooms. But that does not imply that women are less demanding in the bedroom.
 

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« Reply #34 on: September 26, 2011, 04:38:58 am »
The reason why men generally have a higher sex drive is obvious: women can only become pregnant once every 9 months by which time a single man could potentially impregnate 100s of women. It's the same all over the animal kingdom.
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #35 on: September 26, 2011, 05:08:17 am »
That assessment is poor. Sure, one could say that the menstrual cycle and pregnancy does influence a woman's libido. However, unlike other animal species, sexual activity in human females is not bounded by their fertility and their pregnancy. (To further counter your argument, some women are actually more sexually active during pregnancy, due to changes in their hormone levels!) Sex in humans has developed beyond a reproductive role, it now also has a social role; which means, both genders must participate equally for that to happen. If you look at the numbers, if men's libido is greatly disproportionate compared to women, then what on earth are those men screwing out there?


 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #36 on: September 26, 2011, 05:20:34 am »
men generally have a higher sex drive than women.
Disagreed.
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The difference is women don't care what your dick looks like as long as it's clean and does the job
Lol, oh grasshopper, you have so much to learn.
maybe you live in very different "girls community" than ours. care to tell your location? i may give you a visit someday :D

It's the same all over the animal kingdom.
there's one kind of insect, cant recall what. the female will eat the male after their love making, bloody hell if it happen to us. male will make the first move, female will do the disaster later. some morale.

Strength aside, it's actually more difficult for a woman physically rape a man... for obvious reasons.
the reason maybe because it will turn into love making instead of rape, if it really ever happen, so case closed. i only heard female teacher raped their male student, small boy who maybe still know nothing about sex.

But the higher statistics for men could be due to other factors, such as aggression, etc.
that means, statistically, men have more aggression toward sex?

Most sex workers are in it, not because of the men, but because they actually really like doing it.
no, its because of money, they dont give a fuck about orgasm, they can get it everyday if they want to. could you reach orgasm fucking an old lady? no, its not fun.

whereas women tend to be more selective about their partners
i very agree with this one.
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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #37 on: September 26, 2011, 05:36:19 am »
whereas women tend to be more selective about their partners
i very agree with this one.
And they tend to select on the basis of other qualities than appearance.
 

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How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #38 on: September 26, 2011, 10:00:35 am »
That said, people perceive a difference of sex drive between genders, probably because of the methods each gender uses for seeking out a partner. Men usually have no qualms about sleeping with randoms and are quite happy to advertise their conquests to the whole world; whereas women tend to be more selective about their partners and perhaps gossip about it amongst themselves... who knows what else goes on in those club bathrooms. But that does not imply that women are less demanding in the bedroom.

I couldn't have said it better. Society dictates they keep it quiet and amongst their good friends because otherwise they're "sluts". Us men don't suffer the same stigma. Women will feed you the standard bullshit, unless they see you "get it", and then they'll tell you the real story because they don't have to be worried about being judged.
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #39 on: September 26, 2011, 10:23:20 am »
That said, people perceive a difference of sex drive between genders, probably because of the methods each gender uses for seeking out a partner. Men usually have no qualms about sleeping with randoms and are quite happy to advertise their conquests to the whole world; whereas women tend to be more selective about their partners and perhaps gossip about it amongst themselves... who knows what else goes on in those club bathrooms. But that does not imply that women are less demanding in the bedroom.

Yeah.
Quite often the differences between men and women are quite opposite and the reverse of each other.

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A girl will feel betrayed if her guy tells others about what they did in bed last night (physical stuff) but won't feel betrayed if her partner tells others about what she 'talked' about in bed last night (emotional stuff) in fact she will often gossip about this stuff with her friends.

On the other side, a guy is exactly the opposite.

Couldn't care less if his girl tells other people about the physical part of their sex life, in fact would encourage it. But would get quite annoyed if she started telling others about any of his emotions or feelings which he told her about.


Of course everyone is different and it's not a rule, just an observation of averages.

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #40 on: September 26, 2011, 05:11:03 pm »
that means, statistically, men have more aggression toward sex?
Well, men engage in more risk taking, tend to become more aggressive in certain situations, so one could imply that incidents of rape can be partially attributed to that.

no, its because of money, they dont give a fuck about orgasm, they can get it everyday if they want to. could you reach orgasm fucking an old lady? no, its not fun.
You'd be surprised! People generally don't engage in things that is completely repulsive for them, unless they are impoverished, have a drug dependency, desperate, or whatever. But that's not always the case in the adult industry. Sex workers in affluent societies actually treat prostitution as a profession, and they are doing this because they love it. Same thing can be said for the porn industry.
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #41 on: September 27, 2011, 12:40:26 am »
You can't make that part of your body grow anymore than you could make any other part of your body grow once you hit a certain age.  It is what it is.

On the notion that size matters....

I don't really have trouble with women and from my experience it doesn't really matter.  The ones who want gigantic men are probably not worth keeping around permanently.  It probably means they have been around the block a few times and don't have the mental stability for a relationship.

But honestly who wouldn't want an extra inch (2.54 cm) or two?  Whether or not a woman desires it it would still definitely help boost the confidence and masculine ego which in turn can help you with your romantic situations.  but there is a such thing as too big.  Especially if girls you are into are petite.
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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #42 on: September 27, 2011, 02:12:26 am »
But honestly who wouldn't want an extra inch (2.54 cm) or two?
if you are too long, then you cannot use "in" all the length, you'll hit cervix and thats not good. girth however can wet a woman quite quickly. but if you premature ejaculate due to high friction, then thats not good as well. your skill may vary.
You can't make that part of your body grow anymore than you could make any other part of your body grow once you hit a certain age.  It is what it is.
virtually there is. the proc similar to boobs, silicone implant. but you'll risk dysfunctional unusable dick such as this... (beware girls, adult medical material ;))

http://videosift.com/video/Man-spends-6-years-injecting-silicone-into-his-PENIS?k=1314636394:a6488c26262a47e87162617a208d2355
if something can select, how cant it be intelligent? if something is intelligent, how cant it exist?
 

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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #43 on: September 27, 2011, 02:31:19 am »
That said, people perceive a difference of sex drive between genders, probably because of the methods each gender uses for seeking out a partner. Men usually have no qualms about sleeping with randoms and are quite happy to advertise their conquests to the whole world; whereas women tend to be more selective about their partners and perhaps gossip about it amongst themselves... who knows what else goes on in those club bathrooms.
That's true to some extent but there are some differences between men and women which run far deeper than that.

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But that does not imply that women are less demanding in the bedroom.
You're right about that. In fact women are more work because it takes them far longer to reach orgasm than men so it takes a lot more work to satisfy their needs.
 

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« Reply #44 on: September 27, 2011, 03:24:12 am »
You're right about that. In fact women are more work because it takes them far longer to reach orgasm than men so it takes a lot more work to satisfy their needs.
no. its because they dont work at all, they wait for us to satisfy them. so we usually hit the wrong spot. if they do the work on top, it will be faster for them, and we can relax watching tv as a distraction... my theory.
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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #45 on: September 28, 2011, 02:22:32 am »
You're right about that. In fact women are more work because it takes them far longer to reach orgasm than men so it takes a lot more work to satisfy their needs.
no. its because they dont work at all, they wait for us to satisfy them. so we usually hit the wrong spot. if they do the work on top, it will be faster for them, and we can relax watching tv as a distraction... my theory.


Ever since I was little, I saw this as an example of evolution. If the female animals finished first she'll pull out and walk away thus reducing the chance of getting impregnation.  So the males that tend to finish first and the females finished last are favored by evolution.
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Re: How do You Measure Up In Real Life (Adult Only)
« Reply #46 on: September 28, 2011, 03:07:22 am »
I thought women take longer than men because it's nature's way of getting them to favour more patient fathers who'll better nurture their offspring. If she enjoys sex more with a certain man, there's more chance she'll do it again and again. There's evidence to suggest that the orgasm helps impregnation as sex is more effective at producing offspring than artificial insemination.
 

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« Reply #47 on: September 28, 2011, 07:18:29 am »
Think of lives living in the caves.

Back then women often didn't have a choice to pick their partner. Barbaric males often rape or force their way on the females. In the past there wasn't much abortion either, if they get pregnant it was no turning back. All that require was to fertilize the egg and run away.

As we move to the middle ages, the scenario change slightly. The females would be bored if a guy took too long, while she finished long ago. So guys can't evolved to be last finisher. She probably would not waste time with that guy again. But if she get knock up by the guy who finished first, even though she regret it, she got pregnated!

Of course, this isn't the only route evolution took or else the females would have no desire for sex. Love evolved in parallel. But keep in mind of our male disgraceful past.





 

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« Reply #48 on: September 28, 2011, 09:16:28 am »
Maybe you should rethink that?

The human genome has changed little since the stone age/ If wehat you're saying is true then it should be purely physical sixe and strength that women go for but it doesn't seem to be the case.
 

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« Reply #49 on: September 28, 2011, 11:47:45 am »
If what I said is true, the reason male finishes first is because of evolution. It has nothing to do with women being lazy in bed.

Think of the women as your left hand that supports something while the right hand is the male counterpart that does the intricate work. It's like holding a writing board while the right hand writes. If the left hand got tired and leave first, then the right hand can't finished his handiwork. So, it must be that the right hand finishes first.

What I meant about strength is that women back then in the cave society didn't have much of a choice picking male. The stronger male, when he is horny, most likely forced his way on her. Thus impregnating her. However, that doesn't meant she like aggressive males.

The human genome might have change little. But just a slight difference can change everything. Take for example, the lip. (I am guessing here) Notice that in some groups of people that when they talk you see most of their teeth while in a different group you see a portion of their teeth. Result, the prior group has whiter teeth than the second and it's not because they have different teeth. The lip that cover more of the teeth actually kept the moisture on the teeth longer allowing bacteria to grow at a better rate thus staining the teeth.

It's gonna be hard for me to rethink. I have always thought this was how it happen since I was little.
 


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