Tah-dahh!
It took an hour and a half (and almost passing out because I didn't drink enough water earlier since I had some pc work in a hot apartment, spell only lasted a couple minutes), no ladder so I was climbing and doing acrobatics to hold onto the back frame, the actuator was strong enough to give me a bit of support.
They welded the receiver/bar in place, so we took the whole thing down, unfortunately had to lean it on the receiver a bit, but it only broke the plastic where the screws held it in. The guy brought out an impact driver so taking the dish apart was the quickest part actually, lost of bolts, a bit of back pain, but it was pretty damn fun. The big bar was cemented in place so if I want to mount it up a bit I'll probably use one of those rounded garden surround type logs that are pressure treated and make a sturdy frame out of 2x4's, it will be easier to assemble at ground level, and I would only have it tall enough so that I could angle it horizontally and no further.
the actuator works, it's a fairly chunky 36v dc motor,my 30v power supply can move it fine, the whole length of the bar is 31 inches retracted, 45 extended, its somewhat slow but it seems pretty dang strong. It moved the dish left and right, no up/down motion.
I'm just glad to lean back and take a break lol, I don't know how much the damn thing weighed, I'll weigh one of the sections and the middle when I unload it from my truck and let you know, but it was pretty heavy. (first picture is before it was in the truck)
I am pretty tempted to get a base so I can put it together if I want lol, I might cut the bar off, though if it can go straight up I can put it together and take it apart that way easily, don't know if it can, but it should be dooable with one person. receiver looks fairly interesting, I'll try and crack it open to see the insides, I'll probably take pictures or possibly a video if I can rig the camera up right, but most likely pictures.
I had a moment of panic when we were rolling it from behind the garage, barely past the shed, to the open yard, where it looked like the weight was squishing the whole thing oval shaped, luckily it was just the angle I was seeing it at. There is for sure one finger sized hole but I think that's it, and the hole is right beside, if not slightly under one of the bars. (it got poked by the square frame as we took it down)