I like Dave, however, I find his constant complaining, negativity and nitpicking to be a GIGANTIC off-putting aspect of his persona (and don't tell me it's a screen persona - it clearly is how he is). I am not saying he is a bad person - he is a very good and kind person, who takes a lot of time to help people... but the complaining? Were that me, and it had been pointed out myriad times by different people, I'd hopefully be addressing the underlying issue(s) that cause such offputting negativity, I hope that isn't seen as my being rude, but it REALLY takes away from an otherwise amazing bloke
Saying "take it or leave it, that is how Dave is" is fine, but then Dave, and the apologists HAVE TO face the equally valid point that, okay, you're entitled to be negative (why one would WILLINGLY be so negative, is inexplicable), but on the other side of the coin, you're going to have to face reality - people WILL point it out to you, and some people not as courteously as I (hope) I am being, and they can't ALL be wrong, surely - that would be quite a denial on Dave's part.
As for ad hominem character assasinations on a
young girl on Twitter, merely voicing her personal opinion... really? Have you stooped SO low in denial as to not only reject her views, but discount an observation (and not an aggressive one on her part, just an observation, after all) from a total stranger, regardless of gender, and then attack her, ad hominem, which is an immediate admission that your points don't hold water?
Dave is great, denial is not so great, nor is a weekly stream of negativity and complaining from an otherwise respected and admired ADULT engineer. Come on guys, pull up your socks and behave like the men that you claim to be (sometimes
too much). Grown men don't sit on forums and slag one another off, and then pick on young girls with an equally valid opinion as oneself; that's just ridiculous, and you ought to know better, judging by the average age on here
Dave is a great bloke, I'll say that unashamedly. I am not a member of this engineers "club" or the pretentious little boy's macho brigade either, and I don't follow mass opinion for fear of mass derision, if I voice opinion otherwise. Follow the courage of your convictions, and SPEAK UP if you don't like something, although without the need to stoop to insults, but also without the need to align to view you genuinely are NOT in alignment with, just because your peers think less of you if you didn't agree.
Dave = GREAT
Negativity = NEVER EVER great, but Dave can change, if he wants (if HE wants to).
Picking on young girls? The sure sign of anything BUT manly behaviour. If you want a manly role model, look at Amish men.
Have a good day.