Reminds me of how my other half seems to always try to chat while I'm trying to write code. I just start to wrap my brain around what I'm trying to do and get into the zone, then she asks me a question and I completely lose my place and have to start over. Wash, rinse, repeat, then "You've been working on that for 2 hours, when will you be done?!" Well, maybe after I've had 30 minutes to actually focus on it. *sigh* There are worse problems to have, judging by the way guys I know vent about their wives and girlfriends.
Ha that's very recognizable:
https://heeris.id.au/2013/this-is-why-you-shouldnt-interrupt-a-programmer/Be glad it's chat though. When someone asks something in person, you need to pay active attention to take the conversation in.
With chat it's your choice to reply within 10seconds or 5 minutes. I usually choose for the latter. I turned off all notifications of Whatsapp, as I will check it regularly at my own time when I feel like it. This helps wonders for concentration. Just do explain to people why you do this, as a downside of all this "always connected" applications is that we expect (no DEMAND) attention and replies in an instant, even though we're not talking to them in person.
Despite offtopic, I think it's closely related to my choice of music when working. I often choose for music that can create sort of an isolated barrier while having enough interesting texture to it. Depending on my mood it may swing from classical, post rock, progressive rock/metal, psychedelic rock, as long as it is very atmospheric. Having grown accustomed to this for years, I started to notice that more mainstream songs sound unusual for me when vocals just keep on going and chorus are repeated 3 times within the span of 4 minutes. I've been used to unregular song structures, and if there is vocals at all; ones that take it very .. very.... sloooowly.
As people are posting some music and albums here, I am also throwing up one of my favorite instrumental post-rock albums:
Also, as a random comment. I am surprised by the amount of "bands music" here. Are people that listen to more modern electronic music suddenly hiding now, or is there some kind of correlation between engineers/EEs and music?