If I truly gave a shit about security, I wouldn't own a phone. Or a laptop. Or anything that could be easily picked up and nicked.
Apple can say what they want, I call bullshit. If Apple is an asshole enough to completely deny to even offer paid parts to repair a 5,000 dollar computer they sold very recently, I don't underestimate them whatsoever. This, however, is a level of pedantry that is an educated shitpost doesn't deserve.
Anyways, I find security to be an interesting concept. Give the wrong person the right motivation, and most security doesn't matter. There are few ways to be a completely secure person, so I believe the best a technology minded person can do is not be stupid. I like to think I'm not, but I have proven to myself before how little of a shit I can give sometimes. The general idea I take is be responsible with passwords, keep anything that doesn't need to be on the internet off the internet, and partake in at least halfway responsible information acquisition techniques. That I believe is a way to avoid 80% of the traps out there.
To secant, the conversation at hand is one of trying to justify your purchase, and it always has been. If you like Apple devices, and you have reason for owning one, go right ahead. The immature part of me may make fun of you, but the serious part of me doesn't really care. If someone asks me what to do, I would never suggest Apple (unless they are asking what the best method to burn their money was). There are still reasons to use Apple if you're a specific kind of person, but I believe in a world where Apple is solely not needed.
The funny thing about Apple, is that everybody loves to hate them. They are the short guy in your group that eats crow 24/7, but you still like each other regardless. I like to hate Apple, and I believe they do help to make the world more fun. Microsoft, on the other hand, I hate that I have to hate them because I am in a way forced to give them a prominent role in my life. I can type this forum post on Linux, but the moment I wish to boot up Fusion 360, it's back to my copy of Windows. There are alternatives, but it's still annoying to have to use them, and as a gamer, there are just some games that don't run on Linux regardless of what you do.
Microsoft has me by the balls, and like to piss me off however they can. While Apple is fun to pick on, Microsoft is just absolutely annoying. He's not a good friend you mess with, he's the guy that keeps barging in on your conversations trying to join your group of friends, while spewing all his fandom crap that nobody cares about, but you can't kick him out because he works a few cubicles over from you, and you might have to ask him for his bit of a project.