Yes, but how do they fail?
Do the contacts break or distort or loose their spring pressure?
Does the housing crack or break?
Do they develop excessive contact resistance?
I would expect such a connector to work reliably for 50 mating cycles, unless it is exposed to a corrosive atmosphere, or is used with incompatible contact platings or an excessively thick or thin board.
I suspect you have underestimated the costs of a custom connector from a company that doesn't already have a back-to-back doubloe edge connector in their product range, by an order of magnitude. Tooling for custom formed contacts + plating them, and the injection moulds for the housing aren't going to be cheap.