Why should he be any different than the rest of us? We're all going to tout the language we use and, in doing so, perhaps we give examples of why (didn't happen in this case). In so doing, perhaps we influence a decision that actually helps.
This was clearly getting to the typical language flame war without any real added value. As you just said, giving articulate arguments could have helped, but it didn't happen. Merely stating that one is just better and the other is outdated or crappish leads to nowhere. We have seen that constantly happening on forums and newsgroups about C vs C++ vs Java vs you-name-it, VHDL vs Verilog vs SystemVerilog vs SystemC and it usually leads to nowhere. Many people have predicted (and will predict) the demise of this and that just based on how long it has existed, and the newcomer taking over the whole world, and it has never proven to be right until now. This is moot, all of these languages are widely in use today and each for good reasons. (Although SystemC is not that widely used.)
In the end, it's just an opinion.
Yes, so it's best to state it and hopefully with a rationale, so that gives something to think about. Raw opinions without rationales rarely help people making informed decisions.
More often than not, for professionals, there is no choice. The company chose long ago.
That's right. From an historical point of view, VHDL has been prevalent in Europe and Verilog in the US. So that just adds up to the probablity of flame wars, even more so than with other languages.
Of course, there are now many exceptions to this rule. But this is something to keep in mind.
As others have said, language-wise, the best approach would be for a newbie to take a look at the various options (excluding the very 'exotic' ones) and see what best clicks for a start. The real point being to learn HDLs and how to develop digital designs more so than learning a specific language. Then if there is ever a specific company that he/she would really be interested in working at, getting to know what HDL they use would help deciding, at least for the short term.
As for me, I find VHDL much more readable, capable and maintainable than Verilog. Some find it verbose, that's something to consider. (And I've been using C as my main programming language for a long time, so saying that C developers are more inclined towards Verilog is not necessarily true at all.) I don't know much of SystemVerilog, so I can't really compare, but as I reckon, it's mostly Verilog with extensions for the RTL part, so for beginners, it probably won't make much of a difference. It's much more capable for verification though, but I've never really tried. You can also do very decent verification with VHDL. One other point to consider is that SystemVerilog is still partially/or unsupported in many existing tools.
Other points that come to mind: there are many processor cores that are written in Verilog, so that would be useful to master Verilog if you intend to get into this business or at least intend to use one in some project. On another level, I think VHDL is still the language of choice in system-critical designs, including the military, in a lot of countries.
But again, what's important for a beginner is grasping the concepts of HDLs and digital design.
And finally, for a more practical approach, since the author is interested in the "MiSTer" board, there are several example projects for this board in the repo that are written in Verilog. Something to think about.