I've tried off and on over the past few months to do the same thing to my PK2 for the '1713, and can't get it to work either. Change DEV ID, config masks, etc, as required, and even tweak a couple of timings back and forth. No dice.
The PK3 however works FINE for me under MPLAB. Don't know what everybody else's issue is...
Yes, the PK3 is not even in the same league as the PK2 as far as ease of use, and I agree, it's basically garbage when compared...but it works...and it's worked every time.