Hi guys,
thanks for all your ideas. Seekonk you are right the signal is very slow. The high state is about 15s and then it goes low again for 13s (depends on the current consumption).
So the multimeter delivers a valid "signal" progress.
Today I started directly on the Oilmeter (output of the Saleae capture above) and then I connected the Arduino again and tried. And funny enough everything worked as before. Putting it back in the cabinet, it did not work. So after checking the cables and reconnect all terminals again -> Works as designed.
So the main error was, I just starting thinking way to complicated instead of checking the cables