Or should i just not bother with the solder mask between the pads.
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There shouldn't be any copper between pads, so what are you hoping the solder mask will do? At fine pitches, you just need to get things right, and surface tension will make it all work.
There always comes a point where it's not worth it. Granted, 8mil expansion and 8mil sliver is quite old-school, and it's easy enough to find a fab that can beat it if you want to pay, but short answer, don't sweat it.