you got it somewhat right on the the input attenuation end, except you'll need trimpot and variable capacitor on either R3 or R4 for input matching. for audio BW i've done it with pretty much good (acceptable) result with TL074 opamp iirc, the key to the success is fet input opamp i think (very high input impedance).
Does it have to be a monolithic difference amp or could it suffice to use normal opamp and then get precision reistors to form the circuit instead?
you can use 3 opamp instrumentation amplifier for matched input impedance if you like... i used this setup with the jellybean TL074
Do I really need to be able to withstand very high common mode voltages?
your attenuation above will withstand high CM ±160V already. your attenuator is the key here..
Do I need very high input impedance at this point?
yes, any slight loading to R3 and R4 will mess up the attenuation ratio, CMRR and everything. your suggested opamp is 500Kohm input impedance and that is bad imho.
The AD8479 is used for high side current monitoring where it makes sense, but I don't see that it is needed in a diff probe like this.
usually high side current monitor is very low impedance nodes (0.1 - 0.01 ish ohm), lower input impedance (Kohms) will negligebly affect those nodes, thats why 500Kohm impedance opamp is ok. and difference opamp like you suggested is not meant to couple with high impedance attenuator like you posted. and you must balance your attenuator to the unbalanced (unmatched) opamp input, iirc.
- Proper isolation distances. At least one of the amplifiers will do more than 200Vpp.
isolate the traces of your attenuator accordingly esp the 3Mohm lines and you should be fine...
- Bandpass filter. It is only to be used with audio and also to filter the class-D switching frequency.
use lowish BW opamp and you have your BW limit taken cared of automatic in the opamp
- Low power. I would like for a pair of 9V batteries to last a day at least.
yes this can be achieved easily with jellybean opamps, probably for more days.
- Be able to drive a very long cable at the output. No telling where the amp/loudspeaker will be in relation to the PC doing the filtering.
design for 50ohm probe output so you can transmit the signal to your scope with long 50 ohm coax and a 50 ohm terminator.
- Safety. I don't want this to destroy neither my friend, his equipment or the mega-dollar soundsystem this will be attached to.
properly made diff probe will unlikely damage anything. you only need to take care of your probe end where it clip somewhere, too much metal expose on the clip may short something.
btw i recently trouble shoot class D audio amp with only a DSO alone. monitoring high and low side mosfet gate, 10V riding on ±80V, switching between DC and AC coupled probe. i even got shocked by the rail capacitors, fun project
why you really need diff probe for this? its not like the mosfet/bjt working in linear mode that you have to probe the gate voltage precisely? anyway you can check
this long dead and halted "build log" thread to get an idea on how it is done...
fwiw, ymmv. best regards.
edit: oh btw. class D amplifier will probably switch the gate at 10X the audio BW, so expect 100KHz switching, and then another 10X to monitor switching rise/fall time. so anticipate for a MHz diff probe BW. ymmv.