A trick to minimise EMI is to make the variation trace pair lengths DIFFERENT (you have quite a leeway within the HDMI spec) to 'spread' the energy to different times when it hits the connector
One of us is missing something here...
If you have a perfectly balanced differential pair, then at a given point along the transmission line, a positive going edge on one signal coincides exactly with a negative going edge on the other.
Therefore, the electric and magnetic fields due to one signal are exactly equal and opposite to those which are due to the other signal.
Therefore, the net field, as picked up by the receiving antenna in the EMC lab, is zero.
In practice, of course, the field is non-zero, but that's because of practical limitations. The P- and N-channel drivers aren't perfectly matched, the traces are slightly separated in space, there's common mode noise that's the same on both traces, and:
If the two signals are slightly skewed in time, then instead of cancelling out, the signal from one trace precedes the equal-and-opposite signal from the other.
I appreciate that, provided the skew is small compared to the wavelength of the highest harmonic frequencies that are present in the edges, then it's unlikely to have a major effect. You can usually get away without matching lengths to within fractions of a millimetre.
This is the first time, though, that I've ever heard anyone suggest that a length mismatch can have any kind of positive outcome.
Perhaps I've misunderstood, or am missing something. Can you elaborate please?