Do you make the boards yourself or get someone to do them? 0.8 mm isn't too much more expensive than 1.6 mm from PCBCART, and the PulsarProFX system comes with 0.8 mm boards.
I've almost convinced myself that I should just get a bunch of connectors from All Best. I'll theoretically need about 5, so this *nearly* works out cheaper than using the Samtec edge mount connector ($33 from element14). Would either of you, or anyone else, be interested in buying some? They'd probably work out to about $15 each + postage. The only annoying thing is that they have a 4-6 week lead time and I'd rather have something a little quicker than that. Given six weeks of thumb twiddling waiting for them (during which I'd miss my project deadline) I could probably get a good way toward designing my own FPGA board with the peripherals I want and wouldn't need any connectors at all.
Using an eBay cable and a through-hole female connector works out to about $65 :-/