I guess I should have mentioned, it is 20 seconds slow, so I don't think a larger cap would help. I have also tried taking the caps right off, as well as using a 10pF ,and a 10pF with a 6pF in parallel, none of it seemed seem to change much. I also had another crystal that specifies 18pF CL, and that did not seem to change it enough to get it to stop being slow.
Unfortunately, I don't have an oscilloscope (yet, it's been on my list for a long time), so the best way I have to check it is to let it run for 10+ hours and see how off my time is.
Like I said, I haven't used a crystal before, so this is a learning experience for me! I used 5pF because that's just what a few pages I looked at said. I would hope that it would only be 1 or 2 pF, but I probably have a problem in my design, cause it almost seems like more...
You say acute angles are bad, which ones in particular look bad to you?
I'm fairly certain I am turning on and using the crystal correctly, but I can go through my code and make sure. Wouldn't that be a pain to find out I've actually been using the internal oscillator...