I'm just guessing here, but you may have a case of dueling leakage currents.
CTL has a typical input high threshold of 0.635V (0.9V max) and a pulldown current of 1uA to 5.5uA.
STAT has up to 1uA leakage, which would force 1.2V gate threshold on your IRF7410. Since the IRF7410 max gate voltage for 250uA drain current is 0.9V (0.4V min), that would certainly turn on CTL.
Fortunately for you, CTL only ever sees your 3.3V rail or nothing. I'm assuming you can afford to use a voltage divider that requires at least 250uA or so to raise CTL above the 0.35V minimum input low threshold. I chose 0.35V, because you'll want to drop back below that level when 3.3V is removed. I chose 250uA because this is the drain current used for the gate threshold voltage spec in the IRF7410 datasheet, so you have gate voltage targets associated with it.
You will need a lower value source-gate resistor on the IRF7410. STAT has a minimum pulldown current of 6uA. The simplest thing is to set R2 to 3.3V / 6uA = 550k -> 560k (real value). Unfortunately, 1uA of leakage on STAT puts your gate voltage at 0.56V, still enough to leak 250uA into CTL. At 1.8V Vgs, the IRF7410 has a respectable 13mOhm impedance, so try R2 = 1.8V / 6uA = 300k. This is probably better, as 1uA of STAT leakage is below the minimum 0.4V gate threshold for 250uA drain current (at room temp, if you're operating colder, recalculate).
Now to build a voltage divider for the CTL pin. We want to have at least 0.9V on CTL with 95% of 3.3V in (guessing on the tolerance). This means the ratio should be 0.9V / (0.95*3.3V) = 0.2871 or higher. We also want at least 250uA through the divider when the CTL pin is at 0.35V. This means the string resistance should be (0.35V / 0.2871) / 250uA = 4.876k or lower. I plugged this into the calculator at
https://slugrustle.github.io/ and found a candidate with 1.27k between GND and CTL and 3.09k between CTL and 3V3. This has a worst-case minimum ratio of 0.287173 with 1% resistors. At nominal values, it requires 1.2V and 276uA to bring CTL to 0.35V, it requires 3.09V and 709uA to bring CTL to 0.9V, and it will sink 757uA at 3.3V.