There are no diacs involved in the circuit, but you are using an optically coupled triac to trigger the power triac controlling the heating element.
There is only one resistor in the HV side of the trigger circuit. When the circuit is not triggered, the current trough the resistor is ~0.0mA No power is being used.
When the triac is being triggered, the instantaneous current is (VAC/R) and certainly less than an amp, but since the triac trigger triggers in a few microseconds after the trigger isolator LED gets the trigger signal, very little average power is dissipated.
Once the main triac is triggered, the voltage across this resistor is less than the ON voltage of the main triac (<4V ).
So, the answer is the resistor could be quite small in wattage, .5W would be quite conservative, but large enough in size to handle the HV applied across it.
The power dissipated by any resistor with DC or RMS VAC applied across it is: W=(V*V)/R
So, I will leave it to you to calculate the wattage of the resistor feeding the optotriac LED.