It depends on the peak current you actually need. As nearly all Nixies available are used or N.O.S. (apart from a small handful of boutique manufacturers hand-building tubes for lotsa-wonga), most SANE users drive them very conservatively so don't need high currents. However if you are multiplexing you'll be wanting to push them a bit harder, maybe up to 5mA as the max. pulsed current is 6mA.
ZM1332 data (translated)With the cost of N.O.S. Nixies being what it is, and multiplexing being significantly harder on them than DC operation, I would bet most HV5812 designs use DC drive with enough chips for all the cathodes of all the tubes,so aren't badly affected by its sinking limit.
If you need something beefier consider
SN75468N 7x Bipolar Transistor Array, Darlington, NPN, 100 V, 500 mA, DIP. (Basically a ULN2003 on steroids!)
Stick a 90V Zener to ground on its common (diode) pin (with a 1Meg pullup to the 170V rail to keep it biassed), and current limiting resistors in series with each collector output and it will be absolutely bomb-proof for Nixie driving. Its also dirt cheap, so the need for 6 of them and 5 74HC595 shift registers to drive them to equal two HV5812 chips isn't a major issue.