It is a very usable program, liked by many.
Because of that, plenty of parts are available on the internet. Farnell even supplies scripts (to add a part to a lib) for some parts.
Eagle uses the same interface from the early days. I'm sure that was just as any other program with the tools on the left, and the menu/options at the top. Much like CorelDraw for example.
Only the latest version changed all the icons. Fortunately they've added a option to use the old icons.
Once you've done a few boards in eagle, collected/created some .lbr's (see sparkfun, dangerousprototypes or microbuilder), some .ulp's and made a .scr with your settings. Then you'll see that eagle is a useful tool.
I'm sure that there are plenty of other tools around. From unaffordable to open source. From total garbage to overpowered.
Eagle does it's job. When you know how to use it.
I remember using eagle for the first time after using only Altium designer. Eagle looked like a horrible piece of antiques. But the job got done.
Then had to use Multisim and Ultiboard for a while. Lets just say that Eagle is faster to use and more reliable.
I have no experience with diptrace. It looks like a viable alternative to eagle. It's in the same price range.