Simply simulation and experience (I've was driving huge car alternator in custom output power limiter driver) shows that this current will depend on many factors among other PWM duty cycle and frequency related to solenoid inductance, so I do not know why are you trying to play with resistors when you have mosfet?
By adjusting PWM frequency and duty cycle you can easy adjust this solenoid curent and stabilize it like I've already did in alternator for example, to be able limit output power based on custom RPM sensor inserted into this thing and disabled oryginal voltage regulator
Remember even simple sim, with a litle bit theory behind can save your time and help learn how electronics circuits can work when you slow down simulation speed and manualy play with switches, else sooner or later something will
BTW: Your solenoid should have specified coil resistance-it was a few Ohms in the case of my alternator "solenoid", so short-thrugth current was a few Amps