"Community projects" are most often something that are not
projects at all, not even close. It's just some chit-chatting. It's not a project when you start talking along the lines: "it would be nice to have blah blah
". Actually, it has
nothing to do with projects whatsoever, yet most "OSHW" "projects" are just like that.
A real project has at least one person who is actually
doing the actual thing. This is the minimum requirement. Asking around for features isn't even called planning, it's only "market research" or some kind of pre-project study. If the usual "I'm going to do it" escalated into chaotic chitchat, the OP didn't have any real commitment to actually do anything to begin with. Those who do, take the input and go on.
So, maybe project topics wouldn't get into chaos, we don't know because project topics are rare; the ones we call project topics are not about projects, but just normal everyday chaotic socializing.