For this was 50 ohm mode invented, take a length of 50 ohm coax, stick a BNC on one end and connect the screen to your reference at the other end, a 4950 ohm resistor (or as close as you can find) in a small SMT package goes in series with the centre conductor right at the point you are probing, **STICK THE SCOPE IN 50 OHM MODE**, job done, one 100:1 probe with bandwidth for days. For a 10:1 equivalent use a 450 ohm resistor.
Build that right and you have more then enough bandwidth for any flyback secondary on the planet, and the parts are trivial enough that mounting them and a U.FL or such at likely points on prototypes is well worth the trouble at layout time, because it means you can just plug the scope in.
I do wish people would get with the fact that with modern devices EVERYTHING is pretty much RF, once you get this it all becomes much easier to deal with.
Regards, Dan.