Yea I can imagine that is frustrating. I ordered my kit from Zemtronix out of Florida. Im in California, so this should be abbout 5 days.
I have found an issue with some of those transistors. They are mainly NPN style and I replaced the COXA and the X7BV, as that one seems like its getting 12v on pin 1 and 3 but nothing on the gate pin. That is a problem. The XOYV shorts and shows up on the SMD capacitor on the right. This transistor I replaced with an equivlent, and I had no voltages try to come up like before, probably to to the wrons saturation voltages.
The X7BV btw is not a transistor btw, its an N channel mosfet. Theres a problem here, something is disabling it.