I have an 8753ES and when I'm using a calkit with female standards, I configure the VNA for "male". It is very counter-intuitive.
If you would like I could take a photo of the page/section in the 8753's manual that refers to this (assuming that I can find it), I read it a year or so ago and it removed the uncertainty that I had about the issue.
Regards,
Trent Spencer - KM4YTU