Okay, so with buffers and no particular dynamic range issues, you can use any mixer you like, even a single diode.
For a single transistor, you might instead just use a series resistor from each filter (which still need to be terminated, mind) to the transistor base, and not worry about coupling into the low impedance emitter.
Single balanced mixers are easy, you only need the one transformer (a few ferrite beads will do, by the way). Use a constant-resistance filter on the IF port (or, a parallel terminator, and use an L-input type filter).
As for admittance or what have you -- not tabulated? Go back to the old fashioned hybrid-pi model. Tack on capacitances, and set the gain to a single-pole roll-off (this reasonably models recombination in BJTs, but keep in mind a diffusion model is more accurate for MOSFETs -- they don't tank at some frequency, they just roll off, gradually getting "heavier"). Crank the numbers, and out comes your values.
Conversely, whenever you see s-params, or h or y or whatever, you can mentally convert the curves, into impedances, into equivalent RLC parameters. This is reasonable to do on RF transistors in the low frequency range (say, below a gig), but gets iffy at high frequencies (where higher order structure of the device itself matters, and is therefore harder to model).
But mind that you need to do cycle averages, because you're doing large signal, not small signal, analysis here. You might assign a bias point and do small-signal around that, but the bias point will shift due to applied AC (say if you're driving more than 50mVpp into the base), and further shift the averages. Umm, I would guess the impedance will generally rise, while shifting more capacitive (spending more time at less bias also reduces the average capacitance), but who knows.
You can always plug the values into SPICE and run a transient sim -- you have to create your own time-domain instruments to do the AC steady-state measurements, but it's a far sight easier doing that with arbitrary functions, than building those instruments IRL.
Tim