Here's version 2 of the design - now ready for PCB order unless someone here sees some major issues!?
the common-BNC is top left, and the inputs from there to the right.
Each junction of the tree now has a relay, with the final middle bottom relay U116 common-pin routed to the com-BNC.
To save some space the U114 and U118 relay com-outputs are routed 'wrong way' under the relay - hopefully not an issue.
When not used the inputs are 50R terminated (R101-R108).
The control is similar to the first version: ULN2803 (U110, U120) for switching 5V to the relay-coils, and an SPI I/O expander MCP23S17 to drive the ULNs. Just for laughs I'm using a SATA-connector and cable for SPI to the uC controlling the Mux-board
LT1963 LDOs are probably overkill and if one wanted to squeeze the BOM-price probably any vreg would do...
TIA for comments,
Anders