I wanted to dumb things down for anyone else who finds this thread and had a similar question and wants a straight answer and not microbolometer talk.
Hope this helps someone. I am an inexperienced consumer homeowner with zero previous knowledge of Thermal imaging.
The reason you like it so much is because of the MSX - it adds detail, sure, and helps you visually identify the item you're pointing it at, but it provides much less thermal detail. What you see as a gradient with the FLIR One might actually be a completely different issue, like several spots.
One draw back that the Flir has vs the Seek is that the Flir only has center temp. However the center temp on the Flir extends to 1 decimal (63F on Seek, 63.4F on Flir).
Someone with no experience in thermal imaging(you) will have no use for this anyway, because you're definitely not going to look up the emissivity coefficient of each surface you're looking at and you're not going to set it up in the app for each scene. A decimal digit is nice, yes, but meaningless. Both devices are capable of producing this with the right software, and the right software is not on the phone.
My conclusion: I will be selling my Seek Reveal Compact to purchase a Flir One Gen 3. I may even go for the Flir One Pro because of how much more I liked using the Flir.
To answer my thread's topic about "Thermal Sensor size and Flir vs Seek":
Thermal sensor size in these two devices is irrelevant to the eye. The smaller Flir sensor performed as well as the larger Seek sensor.
Edit:
Saved image resolution was one of the things that I thought was Sensor size dependent and was something I hoped that someone would have provided when I posted this thread; so here are my two test picture's image sizes:
The Flir again produces higher resolution and larger sized images.
The FLIR One Gen3 is a quarter of the resolution(80x60) of the standard Gen2(160x120), and only the PRO matches it(160x120), with a slightly higher resolution on-board visible light camera.
The image size is completely irrelevant as it only depends on the software - you wouldn't like an 80x60, 160x120, or 206x156 picture saved on your phone with no upscaling.
My suggestion is - don't dumb it down for yourself. Thermal is not as easy as snapping a selfie, and it won't be for the foreseeable future.
Learn how thermography works, read the topics, understand what emissivity is.
Put a piece of white paper over the visible light camera of your FLIR One to get the real thermal image, without MSX, and you'll see that it's a lot worse than you think.
The devices you currently have are capable of achieving good things if used correctly, and I wouldn't jump the gun on buying something that just looks better.
If you're looking to spend $500 on a thermal imaging camera(which is how much the the FLIR One PRO Gen3 costs), look at the Seek Compact PRO. It's got a 320x240 resolution sensor and provides great images. Not to mention some models(in the US and EU) provide >15Hz out of the box.
See this video:
Or better yet, find one of the deals on a FLIR E4, upgrade it to an E8 with software, and have a device an order of magnitude better than most of the phone dongles. There's some listings on eBay currently sitting at ~$300 in bids.