They will be according to your connector selection.
For example, if you choose a connector like this:

The pitch between the pads must obviously be 5 mm. And of course, in order to prevent pads touching each other, the pad widths must be smaller than 5 mm. If they are going to conduct high voltages, keep the pad widths small. Their heights can more than 5 mm.
If you want to directly solder wires to your PCB, pad dimensions can be chosen arbitrarily.

In this case, I suggest drilling extra holes to tangle the wires through as in the image below, so that the mechanical strength of the connections will be higher.

Good luck.