I will answer your question when the personal attacks stop completely.
I am somewhat disappointed by that response. I was hoping you would provide something to help diffuse the tension, but that has done the opposite.
It is not my intention to jump on your head - nor do I see such malice in members here, in general. However, you seem to be taking offence at any comment which calls your abilities into question. As I - and others - have said, you have made statements and asked questions that clearly indicate your knowledge is lacking in some areas - and critical safety areas at that. As we have a wide range of experience and expertise available here, it is this indication that brings concern for your safety and being a group that fully understands many of the non-obvious potential fault conditions that could eventuate, we must, in good conscience, air those concerns.
Your reaction is a classic expression one would associate with the Dunning–Kruger effect - something we have seen here before and which has, in the past (and very likely in the future) garnered the same sort of response that you have received. It is not a case of being high and mighty on our part - but an honest expression of concern. Without proper understanding, you could do something that could damage a machine or destroy a home. It could maim or it could kill. You may think this melodramatic, but the potential is there.
We can see it. We had hoped you would come to see it as well.
You talk about respect, but fail to give any to people who have far more knowledge, just because they point out something that you don't like. You see it as an attack, rather than help - even though they are trying to look out for your well being.
I have no misgivings about my own skill set. While I first started my journey with electricity at age 8 using a 9V battery, developing over a subsequent period of several decades, I still acknowledge there are many things I do not know. I have dealt with 415V/240V mains in a domestic environment. I have worked on battery operated equipment and CRT TVs. I am still here to relate my tales - but I do not claim to have complete understanding in any way, shape or form ... and if a member here were to call me out on something I was doing, I might be embarrassed - but I would listen. And I would probably thank them.
In short, our wish for you is simple: Be safe.