I don't think you have to be an expert at everything, but you should at least know what has to be used where, and then know where to look it up. Will Rogers put it best, "Everybody is ignorant, just on different subjects." So, in the areas you are lacking, know where to look it up. I'm stuck in the middle between analog and digital and have done a fair amount in each area, but mostly related to the automation world involving sensors, signal conditioning, etc. I have an extensive library, so when I get in trouble, I go to my references. But, if I didn't have the initial exposure and understanding, how would I know what needed to be researched? Like I said before, there's no magic pill, just good old fashioned hard work. JMO.
But to what end? My point is that, as I see it, most electronics practiced by hobbyists seems to be related to using an Arduino and then realizing that everything that can be done with an Arduino has been done and it's on the Internet. There are clearly exceptions...
A step up would be to understand Ohm's Law, Kirchhoff's Laws, Thevenin's Theorem and Norton's Theorem. That is probably enough for most hobbyists at even a fairly advanced level. They are not likely to be designing 3 pole filters. At a minimum, Ohm's Law, in all its manifestations, needs to be understood from day 1. We go nowhere with op amps without Kirchhoff's Current Law. But these are just ordinary arithmetic, nothing esoteric.
You're absolutely right about resources. I have a huge library but my real resource is Google. All of human knowledge is on Google, all I need to do is come up with the right search string.
There's a lot of space in the electronics sandbox and people can move to a spot that is comfortable. I like digital, the only reason I went to college was to learn digital and that's the portion of the sandbox where I play. Can I go back and recapture what I learned about Laplace Transforms? Sure! But I would need an application that generated enough interest to bother re-reading my textbooks. Of course, having MATLAB will make the actual work a lot easier. I really don't like partial fraction expansion of polynomials if I have to do them by hand.
I should put in a plug for Khan Academy for math and the Electrical Engineering program at Khan Academy for the more focused stuff. Khan Academy is free! Or you can contribute - I do... I highly recommend these programs!
For a fee, CalcWorkshop.com is excellent. There is a free series on Limits just to show how the lecture series work. It's a GREAT program!
Here is the Limits program:
https://calcworkshop.com/online-limits-course/I highly recommend taking the entire program starting from wherever seems appropriate. Jenn does a great job as an instructor. She starts with Algebra I and works up through Differential Equations in 8 major blocks and about 450 videos! If a person were to spend $150 for a year and they got through the entire series, it would work out to about $0.33/video.
All of the education required is right there in one very long program. It isn't free but it is well worth the money. Subscribe for a year and go through the program as fast or slow as you wish. Education has never really been free.
BTW: You may wonder why you even care about Limits when they are just a prelude to the derivative. It turns out the concepts are actually useful in certain conditions when you have a discontinuity in a function and it can't be differentiated at that point.