Here's one I found just by searching for 'chip bond diagram':

This is a large chip overall, and to really get at the idea of capacitance, you would have to look at the relative areas of the metallization on the die to where the corresponding pad on the IC is. Here's an example of wire bonded chip:
You'll find that the areas facing each other are VERY small as the metallization on the die is maybe a few microns thick and the lead of the package is maybe a few hundred microns thick and the two are usually spaced with a fairly good distance between them. Heck, my estimation of femtofarads may have been generous.
As for bond wire length, when you look at the die and the packages, you need to realize that there are reasons that large packages typically do not have small die in them. First is the cost of the package--for a commercial or industrial product that is on the same order as the cost of the silicon going into it. Second is to look at the image above--there are rules that must be met for spacing between bond pads/wires (and if they're going to the same pin or not), angles from the die going out, etc., that must be met. A big one for products that are in molded packages is wire wash; you can't have two long wires close to each other because the mold has the epoxy come in from certain points and it can cause the wires to move in the middle and potentially short.
There's a lot going into decisions made for packaging of chips beyond just making the different connections from the die to the outside world.