Hey, Doc, what's up? (always wanted to say that
) Does your UPS have line filtering or automatic voltage regulation? I don't know where you are in the USA, but here in Florida, Florida(faulty) Power & Light can play havoc. I use APC SmartUPS 1500s including 1 on my workbench where the toys and soldering irons are connected and I haven't had that issue with my FX-951. I find it hard to believe that you may have had 3 bad units. Time to check the electrical wiring and your UPS.
As an afterthought, did you get your tips from genuine Hakko dealerships? If not, you may have gotten bad/fakko tips.